show your love

1. The most important thing is to learn about women. If you never understand women in general, how will you understand your girl? Women are very maternal creatures: they love taking care of things. That's why she cooks you great meals, or worries when you don't call after you've driven home. Understand that she is not being excessively clingy; it is a natural part of being a woman, and therefore part of who she is. Perceive it as a good thing; women are only inclined to do this if they genuinely love and care about you a great deal. If she has stopped doing these things, there's something wrong! Most women are also very naturally affectionate and will often smother you with hugs and kisses and the like. The fact is, most will. That's how they think they are showing their love for you. If you feel this is a little too much, tell her gently that you like/love her a lot, but you're not ready for so much attention just yet. This won't hurt her feelings, but she will get the message. Remember also that women have been raised around stories that end in girls finding the 'Perfect Man', become a Princess and live happily ever after. Therefore, it is ingrained into their subconsciousness that they must find a man who is perfect in every way. While this is basically impossible, this article will help you understand what will make her happy, without changing your own personality.


2. Tell her you love her, make sure you mean it


3. Tell her she's beautiful and mean it. Compliment her not only on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. Always be sincere.


4. Be confident. Be proud of being her boyfriend. There are appropriate times and places for affection. Kissing and intimate touching does not usually go over well in public. But don't be too shy to hold her hand in public because you shouldn't be ashamed that she's yours. She will love it when you walk by her and friends and they see ho how good your boy friend is.Never lie. This can taint the relationship and reduce her trust in you considerably


 5. Do not argue in public and cause a scene. This will humiliate her and she'll think twice about going out with you again. Similarly, If you and your girl have an argument, don't do or say things to her that are mean and spiteful. That will make her think that you're a maniac.


7. Do NOT flirt with other girls at any time, especially when she's around. It means you're not loyal to your girl or your relationship with her. Most girls will view it as cheating and you just might lose her. Don't be stupid.

8. Don't ever let her suffer from back-seat syndrome. Granted, you might have very close female friends who have been around longer. But if you appear to enjoy spending more time with them than your girlfriend - and she has noticed - she may be suffering from what girls call 'back seat syndrome'. Think: how would you like it if she preferred hanging out with guy friends to you? What if she hung out with her guy friend alone? What if she was constantly texting other guys in your company? If she starts to mention that she is feeling second-place, change your attitude quickly, but don't let your female friends slip out of the picture. Find balance. Don't text them in her company, and let her know that you prefer spending time with her than other girls. Like you would with other guys, she will naturally begin to assume they are a threat. Don't lie to her; you should genuinely enjoy spending time with your girl. If you are attracted to one of your female friends, it is a good idea to cut the communication short; it is highly likely your girlfriend will notice, and ultimately will start to consider how loyal you are to her.


9. Don't start getting lazy about how you look just because you think she's yours. Continue trying to impress her because she might just lose interest if you begin to slack off.

10. If you're with your friends, never ignore her and start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she's not there. How would you feel if she did this to you? Invisible? Make sure you pay attention to her when you're with your friends. Think about it - she's a friend too. Girlfriend. If you're with a group of mates, make sure she doesn't feel left out if she doesn't know them well. Glance at her every so often just to let her know you know she's still there, or offer a genuine smile.

 

 

11 Become friends with her friends. It gives you more things in common with your girl. Eventually, her friends will love you, and that's a definite turn-on for your girlfriend.

 

 

12 Let her win the argument. It may be silly, and you probably think you're right but, let her win. The sillier the argument, the more reason you have to let her win. She doesn't want to be wrong, don't make it hard on yourself. Admit it, she's right then continue your relationship. If you just tell her she's right, you probably won't hear about the issue again, save yourself and jsut tell her she's right.

 

 

13 Make a good impression on her parents. Even if you don't particularly like them, they can be your greatest allies in the long run.

 

 

14 BE THOUGHTFUL. The small things matter the most. Be a gentleman; hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out; have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her. When she isn't feeling well, or home sick; bring her some soup, hot tea or flowers. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Get her something just because. Make her happy by buying her little gifts. Small things like a single flower or a bag of her favourite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long way. Girls love that.

 

 

15 Remember important dates. This is a big deal with women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you. When it's her birthday, bring her breakfast in bed and some flowers. When it's your anniversary, book something special for you both to let her know how much you appreciate and love her. Remember that women have the idea of being spoiled on these occasions embedded into their psyche from the media. Rose petals on your bed, dinner at a beautiful restaurant - she will have some expectations, and if she is realistic she will not expect much.

 

 

16 Remember what she likes and dislikes. How does she like her eggs cooked? What is her favorite flower? Is she a morning person? She will be very impressed that you have been paying attention. Be thoughtful.

 

 

17 Touch her regularly. Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Hold her hand, give her a hug or gently touch her face--these gestures will all make her feel protected and loved.

 

 

18 Write her love notes. They don't have to be long, mushy and poetic if you're not the type. But try to make them cute and show her that you care. This is a great way to be romantic. Tell her that your lucky that you found her. She loves it when you say it. Just be sure you mean it.

 

 

19 Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her partner. Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie at home, massage her back, snuggle and be intimate. She will love you for it.

 

 

20 Share your everyday events and thoughts with your girl. Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. On the same note, listen to her advice even if you don't agree. Keep an open ear.

21 Listen to her. The number one complaint many women have regarding men is that they don't listen. Even if you're not particularly interested in what she's saying, listen, then acknowledge that you were listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable with you and trust you.

22 Always stand up for her no matter what. It shows her that you are always on her side.

 

 

23 Lastly, if you want her to be yours forever, let her know you're there for her when she needs, be by her side, and most importantly make her feel loved, special, safe and protected. Your woman wants to be your queen so treat her as such and you'll have no problem.

 

 

24 If she wants to pay for something, let her.

 

 

25 Make sure you spend enough time with her.

player

player? playgurl or playboy?

sape sape jelaa yg dpt gelaran mcm ni tahniah.

anda adelah "terbaek" hehe. 

poneca na share something atas pengalaman sendiri.

err. okayy mungkin satu ketika dulu poneca one of them.

cek takmau kutuk pun.cek cume nak share ja.maaf la naa ;)

1. bajet hot

err. kasar nye. yela dulu poneca selalu je dapat sindiran bajet hot. tapi bila sekarang difikirkan balik. mmg agak bajet lah. muka tak la cun sgt. tp sbb terlalu murah untuk berkenalan so dptlah anugerah bajet hot. okayy tahniah poneca. pfft!

2. terlalu murah

err. mcm sedih je anugerah ni. yela tp nak salahkan sape? nak salahkan org laen? dulu mmg la poneca salahkan org sbb poneca tengah bajet hot. tp sekarang bila fikir balik. senang senang je orang mintak no terus kasi? woww! mmg murah kot. okayy tahniah again poneca. kau kasi no kat semua laki even kau tapena jumpe kan poneca. mcm ikan yg nak dibuang kt pasar kan. org tanak sbb tu murah. mmg ramai kutip tapi? yg kutip tu mcm mane type nye? err. tahniah poneca.

3. tak sedar diri

err. ini agak betol la. pantang kena tegur nak melenting. haa poneca la tu. bila org marah poneca marah and mengamuk kt dorg. ciss tak sedar diri betol lah poneca org laen nasihat tu sbb dorg tahu keadaan poneca. dorg tengok poneca tak cantik pon sebenarnye. tp disebabkan poneca tak sedar rupa ni tak lah semahal mane pun. ikot sedap hati je nak kua ngn laki mane. kan ta pasai pasai dpt anugerah tak sedar diri. tahniah la ye poneca.

u all nak tahu ape outcome nye? meh meh nak cte.

1. malu

yela bila dapat anugerah ngn piala di atas. sendiri tanggung malu. best kan? okayy tahniah la sebab sendiri mencari masalah. so tanggung lah ya.

2. tercemar

sana sini org kata poneca. ohh dulu sumpah poneca maki org yg mengata tu. tp sekarang bila direnungkan nama poneca dah tercemar. okayy mmg poneca tu org kenal. sebab? sebab anugerah di atas lah. sumpah dah tcemar babes. now dah insaf ;)

3. yang dikejar tak dapat yang dikendong terus pergi

lain macam betol peribahasa aku tu. yela. even dah ade boifee masa tu. apa kesudahan nya? semua tak jadi lah bro. yg tengah scandal blah. yg tengah couple pon blah. so ape nak buat? sendiri tanggung la

mcm mane you all nak tahu pasangan you all player? poneca cerite ni based on my attitude je okayy :)

1. msg call

haa. ni mmg dasyat lah. dulu boifee ade. tapi poneca bt hape? confirm msg and call boifee sehari belum tentu ada. msg scandalS tu mmg banyak lah. dah kata player. Ya Allah sumpah malu bila direnungkan. sumpah kejam zalim wat pangai cmtuh.

2. alasan

bile boifee msg alasan selalu lah kan. kedit habes. kalau boifee call alasan selalu buzi lah skrg. bila die nak jumpe. haram aku tak pernah jumpe sbb dah syok layan scandal. mmg pngai ini jgn dicontoh.

3. berubah

elok elok ade boifee. ak p mintak status single. pesaipaa? sbb syok sgt dok layan nafsu syaitonn. kalau lah dpt undur masa tak buat pngai ni. sbb mmg tak bertamadun langsung pngai aku kan. haih -...-

sekarang?

new life begins.

pesanan poneca. hargailah pasangan korg selagi dorg ade untuk korg. jagalah dorg. jangan sia siakan dorg. ingatlah pergaduhan walau sebesar mane ade penyelesaiannya. cume kita jangan terlalu ego. jangan terlalu mudah untuk melepaskan ape yg kita ade. takut nanti Allah tarik semua nikmat ape yg kita ade. Allah memberi ape yg kita perlu dan jagalah ape yg dianugerahkan. jangan sia siakan anugerah itu. jangan sampai yang dikejar tak dapat. yang dikendong berciciran. ingatlah janji Allah pasti. what goes around comes around. tak mustahil kalau kita pernah curang. one day, kita akan dapat pasangan yang curang. jangan salahkan mereka. salahkan diri sendiri sebab kita pernah curang di belakang anugerah yg Allah bagi. sebab tu Allah bayar setimpal dengan kesalahan kita.

peace ! ^___^ 

 

  

setahun jagung

elow readers ;)

ttbe poneca rajen na update tengah mlm ni. hehe

sebab poneca rase lucu bile tengok ragam adek adek junior.

sorie adek adek kalau terluka membaca ini.

just na share something.

yela poneca paham pe dorg rase. yela kem? tak semua org suke pegi kem kan? poneca pon tasuke pegi. alahai poneca ni dah ler ske bermekup. confirm mmg ta minat gle nak pegi kem. tapi? sepanjang belajar kt maktab ni. kalau dah disuruh tak pena lagi lah poneca membantah or membuat rusuhan mcm adek adek zaman sekarang. yela poneca kagum gak ngn dorg sbb berani bersuara hak dorg tuh. tapi kan adek adek. you all datang ke sini diberi elaun. mmg la elaun korg tak banyak mcm ktorg sekarang. tp ktorg pun pernah melalui zaman korg. bukannye ktorg masuk maktab ni terus jadi senior. ktorg pon pernah la jadi junior. ktorg pernah rase ap korg rase., tp setakat ni akk tapena tengok la ada bantahan mcm ni dgn program maktab? aiyo. seyes nampak tak educated bila korg bertindak mcm tu. kalau tak suka. just fikir lah positive. dorg dah bg ape kte mahu. ape salahnye kte pulak yg folo ape yg dorg mahu. dan ingatlah. masuk maktab ni lah yang terbaek sbb lepas grad kte tapayah susah susah nak cari kerja. kalau korg tanak terlibat program maktab korg pegi la studi somewhere else. then nanti kerja? oke selamat beramal. renung renungkan lah.

ktorg makan garam dulu dari korg. so just take it ;)

u all chantek chantek. kachak kachak. risau ape pegi sne. takan cacat punye pegi. just be positif. kata bakal pendidik kan ;)

hai penang. bye bye taiping

ceewahh tajuk entry paling tale belahh

padahal every week balik rumah.sengal betul pompuan ni

hai semester four.itu sebenarnya niat aku :)

semester ni semester last SBE (school based-experiances) pheweet.taktau lagi mau p skolah mane.ak dalam dilema.cewahh.gedik nak mampos kan.tapi rasenye kali ni ta bersama boipren dah.bai bai boipren.sbb beliau akn bsama famili beliau di kedah,wuwuwu. boipren jgn jadi cikgu nakal tau.

yeayy.buat SBE tanpa boipren boleh nakal sikit sikit. HAHA :D

bayangkan tahun lepas SBE bersama boipren.sumpah akulah cikgu paling skema.mau tak? boipren cubet kalau nakal.nak ngorat student pun tak lepas habaq hangg.

first: SK treacher methodist taiping

second: SK king edward 2 taiping

third: SK methodist penang

fourth: where? tunggu ^_^

after semester four masuk semseter five kan? woww. masa berlalu terlalu pantas.ak sebenarnya tak redi nak PRAKTIKAL lah !!! aku tengok senior senior semua serabut bile praktikal. ak nti mcm mane? so for this coming semester four. ak nak cuba matang dan berdikari. supaya aku ready semester five, six, seven and eight !

ouch!! cikgu mathi ni garang :)

p/s: cikgu math rindu cikgu pj sudah

gambar dalam kenangan SBE bersama semester dua :)

bulan puasa cikgu sempat dating sebelum masuk kelas :D

nakal sikit jetauu.see you all coming entry :)

hati

aku jua punye hati

*___*

tak terlepas dari curiga

apatah lagi bila cemburu menguasai

pada sesiapa pun

namun ku gagah berdiri

dengan kenyakinan

kau akan setia

O.o

sweet 21 sayang

16 june.hari jadi?

belum lah.eh eh eh :)

today ak tak sempat on9.buzi.pegi penang dating :)

hahah.

kali ni paling besh.,sbb...

dating bawak mama abah ngn abang :)

yela abah dah janji na sponser besday boipren aku

so as he said.die dah tunaikan janjinye

terima kaseh abah

boipren aku dah masuk bilik ak weh !

hahah ! pheweet. abang ngn boipren tolong angkat barang barang aku tadi ha sampai tingkat tiga.tekezot die masuk bilik aku.die cakap tak cantik.kuangsam ! hua hua. papepun tenks sayang sebab menghabeskan masa bersama saya dan famili saya di penang for the whole day :)

for you sayang

ucapan untuk 17 june:)

sweet 21.saya tak pernah menyesal kenal awak.saya tak pernah menyesal sayangkan awak.saya jugak tak pernah menyesal cintakan awak since we know each other.tapi saya takut awak menyesal dapat saya.i love you.selamat menjadi matang.terima kaseh jaga saya.awak lelaki pertama yang jaga saya lebih dari yang saya mahu.saya hargai.saya sayang awak sangat :)

jadi matang lah sikit.hehe.mmuah :P

ANNISSA

elow readers. u all folo tak NORA ELENA? mesti ramai yg folo kan kann? sokeyh.poneca bukan na ckp pasal ELENA tuh.skrg poneca na ckp pasal ANNISSA.korg folo?mesti ramai tak.sbb cite ni ta romantik mcm elena kan.but cte ni byk mmberi pengajaran kt kita.ya kita semua :)

u all.jgn view negative je.cte ni ad positive na ajar kite.sbb poneca pena mengalami same as this drama.hehe cume bezanye cte poneca bercinta bukan berkahwen okayy :)

bukan sekali tapi lebih...

itu tak menjadi masalah buat poneca,sbb pengalaman mengajar poneca erti hidup.

kes laki curang:

secara basik.ramai pompuan cakap lelaki curang sbb pompuan chantek.and whatsoeva...

tp from my point of view.ade byk lg sbb.and punca lelaki curang datangnye dari kita sendiri.siapa kita?kita lah wanita yang tak pandai menjaga rumahtanggan sendiri.

ye poneca antara wanita itu.hey hey enjoy read this.kalau busan tutup je poneca tak pkse :)

come back to main point :)

kawan kita tak kira lah siapa. ingt tau poneca pesan. tak kira siapa. jangan lah kita percaye 100%. cube tengok cte ANNISSA tu.sape sbnrnye rampas suami dia? bukan kawan baik dia ke? bukan kawan rapat dia ke? Nauzubillah. hehe ttbe pulak poneca emo O.o

poneca pernah bbrape kali kne rampas kwn lelaki oleh kwn snri.okayy maybe dorg tak sedar yg dorg terambil kwn lelaki poneca.tapi dorg tahu kan poneca sayang laki tu laki ni.sbb? poneca cte kt dorg semua benda.ulang balikkkk....SEMUA benda.dari situ kwn poneca tahu kelemahan poneca.so die pon take granted lah amek bf kte kan.walaupun itu cte lme.tp itu lah yg mgajar poneca menjadi lebih matang.mmg kdg kdg berat kan tanak cte kt mmbe ble mmbe tnye.so kne pndai and bijak.ape? pusing jela cte supaya org taktau kelemahan kita dan pasangan kita.plis readers jgnlah mcrtekan hal rumahtangga pada org luar.tapi bawaklah berbincang dgn pasangan.tak salah btukar pendapat dan nasihat dgn kawan kawan.tapi jgn crte kelemahan kita :)

terlupakah O.o

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Kini diriku yang kau tinggalkan begitu saja

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Mungkin hanya aku
Yang membiarkanmu menipu diriku

lagu ni sangat bermakna.

mood:menangis dalam hati.

nilai diri kita berharga :)

1. Sekurang-kurangnya ada 5 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dan sanggup mati kerana anda.

2. Sekurang-kurangnya ada 15 orang dalam dunia ini menyayangi anda dalam beberapa cara.

3. Sebab utama seseorang membenci anda adalah kerana dia ingin menjadi seperti anda.

4. Senyuman daripada anda boleh membawa kebahagiaan kepada seseorang walaupun dia tidak menyukai anda.

5. Setiap malam ada seseorang mengingati anda sebelum dia tidur.

6. Anda amat bermakna dalam hidup seseorang.

7. Kalau bukan kerana anda, seseorang itu tidak akan hidup bahagia.

8. Anda seorang yang istimewa dan unik.

9. Seseorang yang anda tidak ketahui menyayangi anda.

10. Apabila anda membuat kesilapan yang sangat besar, ada hikmah disebaliknya.

11. Sekiranya anda merasakan anda dipinggirkan, fikirlah semula; mungkin
anda yang meminggirkan mereka.

12. Apabila anda terfikir anda tidak mempunyai peluang untuk mendapatkan
sesuatu yang anda ingini, mungkin anda tidak akan memperolehinya, tetapi
sekiranya anda percaya pada diri sendiri lambat-laun anda akan memperolehinya.

13. Kenangilah segala pujian yang anda terima. Lupakan segala maki hamun,
caci & cela.

14. Jangan takut untuk meluahkan perasaan anda; anda akan merasa senang bila seseorang mengetahuinya.

15. Sekiranya anda mempunyai sahabat baik, ambillah masa untuk memberitahunya yang dia adalah yang terbaik. Seminit Hanya seminit diperlukan untuk mendapat sahabat baik, sejam untuk menghargainya, sehari untuk menyayanginya, tapi sepanjang hidup untuk melupakannya. Hantarlah pesanan ini kepada orang yang anda tidak akan lupa dan hantarkan juga kepada orang yang menghantar pesanan ini. Ini adalahpesanan pendek untuk menyatakan yang anda sentiasa mengingatinya. Kalau anda tidak menghantar pesanan ini, bermakna anda sudah melupakan kawan-kawan anda. Ambillah sedikit masa dan anda sudah pasti memberi keceriaan kepada seseorang atau mungkin mengubah hidup mereka kepada yang lebih baik.

menjaga hati

manusia memang tak sempurna.

kekurangan manusia itulah saling melengkapkan

antara satu sama lain.

antara sedar atau tak.kita sebenarnya selalu melukakan hati orang.poneca sendiri tahu banyak yang terluka dengan poneca.mungkin dari bahasa.atau perbuatan poneca.tapi.perkataan "nobody perfect" rasenye dah ta layak digunakan. sebab dengan word tuh manusia tak pernah berubah.ya betol manusia tak sempurna.tapi sampai bila nak sempurna kalau asek dok ulang "nobody perfect". yakinlah Allah menciptakan kita semua untuk saling melengkapi. sebab tula adenya baik dan buruk manusia. just imagine the world without bad people. bole ke mcm tu? rasenye macam bosan kan.mcm kalau tengok muvie yg asek nak bmanje je.na mesra and baek je.mesti kte akan complain "BUSAN" betoltak? so the same things.dalam life kite kalau semua nak baek je.nti busan la kan.cume jangan lah melampau batas.kekadang kita perlu sedar hak orang lain.hak ibu bapa kita sebagai insan yang menjaga kita dari kecil.so jangan melawan.dorg tahu yg terbaek untuk kita.percayelah Allah dah atur yg terbaek untuk kita.sebab tu kita dapat ibu bapa mcm kita ada sekarang.dan hargailah sahabat di sekeliling kita.Allah dah bagi mereka bukan hanya untuk kesunyian dan kesusahan.tapi hargai mereka di kala mereka maseh wujuda untuk kita.dan terakhir sayanglah insan yang kamu sayang dengan ikhlas.

hargailah org yg didepan mata kita.sedarlah kewujudan mereka :)

p/s: nak bercakap tengok orang sekeliling.kadang kadang diam tanda tak suka.nak berjalan lihat ke bawah.kadang kadang yang atas belum tentu selamat.dan ingatlah.sehebat mane kamu.ade lagi yang di Atas :)